Category Archives: relationships

Terms Defined

  “What’s the difference between a wifey, a one nitey, and a cut buddy?” That was the question that I received via text  this past Saturday morning at 10:46 a.m. The first thought that ran through my mind was, WTF … Continue reading

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Message to the hated

It took me a long time  to write this particular post because, I had to think about whether I wanted to touch on the issue. There may be some who feel I am taking shots but trust me i am … Continue reading

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Afterthoughts of a Valentine’s Day

Just in case you missed the memo, yesterday was Valentine’s Day. You know the day that society has commercialized when in fact it is a real holiday sanctioned by then Pope Gelasius sometime around 498 A.D. While no one really … Continue reading

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Maintaing the Muslim and Finding a Husband

For those of you who do not know, my alter ego is Muslim. Yeah I admit, I am not the best Muslim but who really is the best person. I pray every day asking God to keep me on the … Continue reading

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The replaceable moment

  So if you haven’t heard by now the self-made relationship guru brother please Steve Harvey is having some issues of his own. If you haven’t heard I suggest you go over to YouTube and type in Mary Harvey. Let’s just … Continue reading

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Standards: That goes for the homeboy too

A few months ago, I was involved in a Facebook discussion with one of my dovely Sorors. Her question rant to me was, why don’t women hold their male friends accountable for cheating yet they are quick to call another man a dog? … Continue reading

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Greener pastures

With the day that I had yesterday I was very quiet and just reflected while listening to music. During this reflective mood that I was in Jazmine Sullivan’s song, “In love with another man.” While listening to this song my thought led … Continue reading

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