He cheated….why???

As always, between my Facebook and twitter, I read the most interesting things. Today was no different. As I was reading people’s statuses I came across one that had me tickled. One of my male friends, decided to post a public service announcement informing women than men don’t comment on other men being unfaithful because they understand. Being the sarcastic I responded in kind telling him that I understand too. The topic stuck with me that I just knew that I had to write about it. Hopefully, you ladies will understand too after I’m done.

Fact: 50% of men cheat. If you don’t believe me go look it up. I guarantee that your answer will be the same. If not then I guess I lied and I owe you. What does seem to be a mystery is why 50% of said men cheat. If you’re like me at least one of your girlfriends has been cheated on. While she was cursing out all mankind, I am sure that one of the reasons she repeated as his reasons was that she didn’t give it to him like she used too. Who knows, he may actually be right. The problem is that his reason is so unoriginal. That reason is one of the most common reasons. Other reasons include the lack of respect for their manhood. Very few tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

The reason why men cheat is actually quite simple. Are you ready…..they cheat because they can. It’s a known fact that most men have an adventurous bone in their body.  Plain and simple they are thrill seeking individuals.  Cheating is just that. I mean think about it, they have to find a girl, exude a certain level of charm that convinces said girl that they are single (sometimes), and plan time to be together all without getting caught. Sounds like a roller coaster to me. Truth is, even if you continued giving it to him in all ways known to mankind he would still cheat on you. Chances are she’s giving it to him the same way. Quite honestly, if your man has cheated or planning to cheat there really isn’t anything that you can do to stop him. More than likely he’s done it before and is way ahead of the game.

So ladies, next time your cheating partner decided to tell you a tall take make sure that you are in a position to call him a liar to his face. If you were swinging from a pole in the beginning make sure that you keep swinging from that pole. That way you will know that it had nothing to do with you and all to do with the fact that he did it because he could.



About Divine*Pearlz

As one of my good friends, Carrie Pink (from www.carriepink.com) says, I am a modern day superwoman. In the midst of me being a superwoman I am really down to earth once you get to know me. I love life and try to always live it to the fullest. I love God and try to always honor Him. I am service oriented after all I am a Finer Woman. I love health and have made it my mission in life to pursue degrees that will put me in a position to fight for better health policies for my people. All in all, I'm just me. You can take it or leave it!
This entry was posted in relationships. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s